Erotic Lubricants and oils, sexual enhancement and their role in love games
Erotic Lubricants and oils, sexual enhancement and their role in love games
By Emile-Anne Smith
A nice way for you too spice up your romantic night is by using massage oils to soothe those aching muscles. Aromatherapy oils are available which have a calming scent, massaged into your skin or applied to your bath water. Either way it will bring a smile to your face and leave you energized for a night of sexual pleasure. Some very erotic scents include forbidden fruit, lavender citrus and others. Heating oil is interesting and fun all in one, it is an oil for the more intimate massages. The heating oils heat on contact with the skin and grow hotter as you blow on it sending a feeling of warm pleasure coursing through the veins of the lucky recipient. Oils with pheromones and ginseng are also available to bring out your animal instinct. Massage oils come in varying sized bottles and are also available in kits including different kinds so you can find the right one for you and your partner. There are also sexual enhancement lubricants on the market, that are also prolonging sexual pleasure and help to prevent premature ejaculation.
Flavored lubricants can also add an element of fun to your planned evening of romance. Ingredients in these kinds of lubricants include, glycerin, water, natural flavoring, cellulose gum, are all very safe to be tasted. The flavors can provide you with a new level of enjoyment and includes tastes like passion fruit, watermelon, peach, apple, orange and many others. Most flavored lubricants will not stain, have no nasty after taste and are latex friendly. So be ready for a nice night of foreplay, just rub some on and lick it off, you will have fun and so will your lover. They come in bottles which pump or pour, or tubes which squeeze out the end. Just pick your favorite flavor, also like the oil they also come in variety packs which have small samplers of different flavors.
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Personal lubricant can play a major role for a lot of people in sexual relations, whatever reason you may be prone to being dry, a personal lubricant can help. They come in water based and silicone based formulas, as well as a mixture of the two. Lubricants keep you slick and safe for a long night of passion. They will not leave a greasy residue nor do they stain or have an odor and they also clean up easy. Ingredients can include vitamin e and Aloe Vera. Most are water soluble and are safe with latex condoms. For hours of smooth safe fun, lubricants are just the thing. Personal lubricants come in bottles varying in size by ounces, some squeeze out the bottom while others use a pump for easier distribution.
If you and your loved one are looking for new and exciting ways of expressing your love for one another, these fore mentioned oils and lubricants can add just that. Impress your lover by treating them to a sensual massage, indulge in mutual foreplay with your choice in flavored lubricant, get out the safe latex friendly personal lubricant and have fun. All of the oil and lubricants are aimed at foreplay which is a critical part of love making; it raises the romance and can increase the desire you have for that lucky person.
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Sunday, 19. March 2006
The #1 Tip for Great Sex
The #1 Tip for Great Sex
by Cynthia Perkins.
No, the number one tip for great sex is not some new wild and kinky position or technique, it's just some good old fashioned simple communication! Unfortunately many couples find it very difficult to communicate with one another about their sexual needs or preferences and this can lead to a lot of dissatisfaction and dysfunction in the relationship.
Lack of communication is a frequent culprit leading to infidelity as well. Partners sometimes turn to other relationships to meet needs that are not getting met in their current relationship, instead of realizing that if only they concentrate on communicating these needs to their current partner that they too could learn to satisfy them. There would be no need or desire for either partner to be unfaithful if each partner would simply be honest with each other, communicating their needs, desires and preferences. Your wife (partner) can be the lover you need if you teach her how to satisfy you, telling her what you like and need. Your husband (partner) can be the lover you need him to be if you do the same. If your needs are met in your relationship, there is no need or desire for unfaithfulness.
Communication with your lover is probably "the" most important factor for not only a satisfying sexual relationship but for a relationship in general. If you do not communicate with your lover you can't be satisfied. Many people falsely believe that their lover can read their mind or that they should instinctively know how to please them. This is a very destructive belief for not only the sex, but also the relationship as a whole. Each one of us is different with unique sexual needs and desires. If you're in a new relationship it takes time to learn what each other like. Your new lover probably has different needs in regard to what they like and how they need to be touched than your previous lover. If it is a long-term relationship you need to continually explore and discover one another's bodies, needs and desires. Needs may change over time. It's necessary to let your lover know what you need and it's equally important to be interested in what your partner needs.
For a relationship to be successful each partner is responsible to communicate their needs to the other and to meeting the needs of the other. If you have a partner who is not willing to learn and not interested in satisfying you, then you would want to evaluate whether this is a relationship you should be in. Getting your sexual needs met is just as important as any other need in the relationship.
Speak openly, directly and honestly. Be specific and detailed. Tell your partner where, when and how to touch you. Show them how much pressure, how much speed and timing that you need. Let them know what words you need to hear and when and how to say them. Discuss what scenarios, techniques and positions work best for you. Share your fantasies. Let them know when something isn't working and let them know when it is working.
There should also be a healthy balance of give and take in each partner and sexual requests should be within reason. No one should have to engage in any activity that is degrading, violent or disrespectful.
If this is a new behavior for you, it may and probably will feel uncomfortable at first, but do it anyway! It will get easier with time. Sharing yourself in this way will increase intimacy, enhance your sexual satisfaction and decrease the risk of unfaithfulness. Your relationship as a whole will be happier, more fulfilling and satisfying in every way.
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Saturday, 07. January 2006
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Gay dating has been scrutinized for many years, and in history it has been known that men who were openly gay were not only abused but some were even killed. Gay dating has been a controversy for many, many years but as of lately people have come to realise that there is nothing wrong with gay dating. Gay men are as natural as a straight couple. There is no difference, they love each other the same, the commitment issues are still the same and the only thing different is that they are of the same sex.
Gay men are everywhere; they can be your next door neighbour or the admin guy at your work. They are the same as any other person and should not be criticised just because of their sexual nature. In today's world we can land on the moon, we can trace people back to the dawn of time and we can tell who someone is from a tiny spot of blood so why is their still prejudice towards gay couples?
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However, recent changes in law and governments have shows that the prejudice towards gay people is receding, and about time too. New laws in the United Kingdom have allowed gay couples to be married, known as a civil partnership, following in the steps of other countries such as Canada, Netherlands and Spain.
Gay dating has come a long way from its dark history. People are now openly gay and it's not just people like you and me, Elton John is openly gay and has just been through a civil partnership to his partner in full view of the media. Gay exposure does wonders for the cause. It opens up the world in a new light to others to let them see that there is nothing wrong with a gay couple. That they live normal day to day lives and feel the same as every other couple does. People have only now just started to realize life is no longer greener on the other side! They realize there is online gay club, gay personals, lesbian dating at www.onlinegayclub.com where they can be themselves.
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Thursday, 22. December 2005
How to prolong sex and enjoy it like never before
How to prolong sex and enjoy it like never before
by J Herrera
How many of us are disappointed with our sex lives? A lot of people want more or have trouble getting there because their lovers are finished before they have even started, or worse that they finish right when she's just warming up. Even though we would like to, we can't just lay blame on our lovers. We must take care of what our bodies need and create what we want and how we want it.
If we want to prolong sex and make it last longer we must consider a lot of things, for starters you must make sure it's a place where both of you can be relaxed. Comfort is a very important when becoming intimate. Mellow lighting lots of pillows and silky sheets might help for a nice start. Also, it can really make a difference when you take the time to know your lover. It will help a lot to enjoy sex more if you are connected on an emotional level.
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A more scientific approach will say that most women take longer than men to orgasm from vaginal penetration than men do from sex. That is why, if your partner's pleasure is important to you, you will want to be able to last as long as possible. And besides, women often want to make love several times in an evening to keep their sexual arousal going and to make it more likely that they will achieve sexual satisfaction. But most men can not keep up with their wives and girlfriends because they don't naturally have the virility and stamina they need to do it. This is more evident as men get older - and often become very tired after their first orgasm.
As we get older our level of testosterone declines and that is the reason why many men can not keep making love all night long so they can't prolong sex. Testosterone is the hormone that controls our secondary male sex characteristics - everything from facial hair to athletic ability to sexual desire. Many men use artificial drugs to prolong sex, but it is not really a solution because these artificial drugs treat the symptom and not the underlying problem. You have to be taking them every time you have sex, and have dangerous side effects, including vision problems and high blood pressure.
That's why supplements that increase the amount of testosterone in a man's body can be an essential part of a sexually active lifestyle. They are all natural and have virtually no side effects. With this your testosterone level will increase naturally, so that eventually you will be able to have sex for longer periods of time and without becoming tired or losing interest.
What that means is that you will be able to prolong sex and outlast your girlfriend, rather than leaving her begging for more! It will not be necessary to take them right before you make love and your wife or girlfriend will be glad that she has helped wake up your natural desire for your body.
The result is a better, longer and healthier sex life for you and your partner.
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Monday, 19. December 2005
Swinger? Swinging? Wifesharing? Great Communication and Couples Swapping!
Swinger? Swinging? Wifesharing? Great Communication and Couples Swapping!
by Julia Tanner
When it comes to couples swapping, knowing how to communicate with your partner and the other couple is imperative. You should already be starting out with open lines of communication, but here are some tips to guide you along the way as well.
Naming The Place
When you need to talk about something serious, you don't go to a ball game or to the movies, do you? It really is all about location.
If you and your partner need to discuss something, then you will want to find somewhere that is quiet and private. The fewer distractions the better. Of course, restaurants are a nice way to give your selves a distraction in case the talk becomes difficult, but you will have to factor in the presence of the wait staff.
If you decide to talk at a restaurant, then I would recommend letting the waitress or waiter know that you have some important things to discuss and that you would like to be disturbed as little as possible.
They will understand and go to great measures to accommodate you--but only if you ask.
The quieter the setting, the less distracted you will be, so find a nice secluded corner. And then begin to talk.
If you wish to talk somewhere else, I would recommend a neutral setting. Perhaps there is a park nearby where you could take a walk.
These suggestions work great for all relationships as well as with the other couples and well.
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The Importance Of Time
Finding a time where you will not feel rushed is also important to having a good couples swapping conversation. You don't want to have anywhere to go when you need to talk.
Sometimes it might take some time to broach a difficult subject, so you need to feel free to wait until you are ready to say what you want.
You will also want to set up any childcare conditions to support the large timeframe. Be sure to let the sitter know that you aren't sure when you will be back, but will call when you know when you will be leaving.
Give Everyone A Turn
There's an old book that talked about handing a shell to everyone when they wished to speak. Although you don't need to use a shell, you want to make sure that everyone has a chance to talk without being interrupted.
You can do this by starting off with one person. This person will talk until they feel that they are finished and then another person will talk. This continues until everyone had said what is on their mind.
At this point, you can begin to react to things that other people said in a gentle way. Accusations or harsh words will not help in a difficult situation.
Listen Up
Making sure that you understand the person who is speaking is the key to creating useful dialogue. Repeat what they have said if you're not sure about something. Perhaps they can clarify their meaning.
Actively listen before you figure out what you are going to say.
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Most of us would agree that attraction is some kind of energy or magnetism between two people, but very few of us understand how to read these attractions.
Yet, we are even delighted, elated, and often overwhelmed by some attractions. They seem impossible to resist, let alone understand. Even when we know the consequences of engaging an attraction that can be devastating to our lives, we may proceed anyway. this is when the attraction can be "fatal."
Is this some kind of madness, or is there a simple answer for "losing it" with another person?
The answer lies in the heavens and the "psychic sky" within us.
No doubt you have heard and read about that ancient statement "As Above So Below." But, to be honest, so few of us understand what this really means.
The psychic sky is that world within you that reflects the celestial pattern of the signs and planets at the moment you were born. This means that these energies are within you and are expressed in the daily drama of your life. Therefore, romantic attractions are based on how the Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars in your psyche relate to the Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars in another person's psyche.
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While this idea may astound and even seem absurd to some of you, it proves to be quite accurate when you investigate its validity through astrology.
A quick and simple way to determine if there is a romantic attraction between you and another person is to realize that planets are desires and signs are attitudes. When your desires and attitudes are in harmony with the other person's desires and attitudes, there is romantic harmony.
This harmony is determined by the sign position of the planets in your birth chart. As you may know signs are composed of fire, earth, air and water energies. When the planets of both parties are in harmonious elements, a happy relationship is possible. For instance, air signs are favorable to fire, and water signs are favorable to earth but not to fire and air.
Sexual harmony is based on the relationship of Venus and Mars in each person's chart. I have seen examples of intense sexual attraction between two people when the Venus of one person is in the same sign as the Mars of the other. these energies are even more intense when we find Pluto in the same sign as the other person's Venus or Mars.
There are many other patterns which explain the mystery of our attractions. But this information should be enough to help you understand what is going on in the background of your relationship.
A skilled astrologer can explain how all these complex energies work in your relationship with others.
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Monday, 21. November 2005
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One of the many challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. The biggest fears are that the woman will get bored with the "same old, same old" and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, what are the best sexual positions?
The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, I'll now talk about the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won't continue making them.
Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs banging beautiful broads, and... well, they just don't know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are meant to display a good scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.
And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With her pelvis bent back that far, she can feel pain in her cervix if you push in too far. Plus it's a position that puts pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go behind the scenes and watch the making of an adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood gets killed when the actress keeps having to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)
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Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. To a woman, sex is a way to get closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on the underside of her thighs. So here's a tip for you to try... Next time you're having sex with your woman (while you're engaged in actual intercourse, that is), get more of your weight on her. You see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys feeling her man's body pressed hard against her.
So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman will tell you that she feels like she's being smooshed. Of course, do this within limits! If you're on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can feel painful for her.
But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least some of the man's weight. So save the gentlemanly sex for the royal family's women!
Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do all the work when she's on top. For virtually every woman, sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.
Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp. A lot of guys have read too many "Men are From Mars"-type books and think women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it." Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and... she'll LOVE it! And don't worry about it. If something is going on that the woman doesn't like, she'll let you know.
Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don't need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.
Tricky positions are just frustrating for everybody and often kill the mood because there's too much "where should I put my arm?"... and not enough "let's just have fun exploring."
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To start, lingerie is always a sexy gift to give your partner. Just be sure it's a color she loves and a size that will fit her well. But, we can go well beyond lingerie for the exotic gift you both can enjoy. For instance, how about a romantic board game. There are several to choose from, but the one that stands out is the "Hearts are Wild Board Game". It's an erotic adventure for two! You and your partner will take turns rolling the dice. In the spirit of fun you perform different activities and answer intimate questions. You must collect as many Hearts are Wild game coupons as possible. This game comes with everything you need to start playing right away. You get the game board, 4 decks of cards, feather tickler, pina colada warming massage oil, cinnamon massage oil, blind fold, 2 pawns and 2 dice. It's an intimate evening in a box - so to speak.
Or, how about a massage kit. The "Sensuous Lover Massage Kit" can be enjoyed by both sexes. Who wouldn't appreciate a sensual massage done by their partner. This kit has everything you will need. A book that instructs you on how to give a massage, lightly scented massage oil, and a vibrator to help sooth away the aches and stresses of every day life. You'll have great fun learning the techniques together, then trying them out on each other. And, I'm sure great fun is not the only thing that will result from giving each other a sensual massage. ;-)
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Another fun gift you both can enjoy is a vibrator. Today there are thousands on the market to choose from. But, if you're looking for one that would benefit both of you, then the "Hitachi Magic Wand" wins hands down. It was originally designed as a back and body massager, and it works great for that purpose. However, over the past twenty years or so it has become one of the most popular sex toys purchased by couples. This plug in the wall vibrator has actually been around for more then thirty years and has exceptionally strong vibrations. We love it because it easily stimulates myself and my husband and it's a fun sex toy for both sexes.
There are also a wide range of instructional and informative DVDs to choose from. These DVDs allow you and your partner to learn and explore new ideas for your love life. One such DVD is "The Erotic Guide To Sexual Fantasies For Lovers". It has erotic scenes throughout the video, and you'll see beautiful couples dramatize some of the most popular fantasy themes as sexuality experts answer all your questions. This is a fun and erotic way to learn how to make all of your fantasies become a reality together.
These are just a few of the fun, sexy gifts you can share with your partner. No matter what the occasion give each other the gift of intimacy. It's the gift that will live on forever.
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Saturday, 19. November 2005
How to Gracefully End a Relationship
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Breaking hearts is a tough reality of dating and should be tackled with as much respect and maturity as possible. If you are in a relationship and have tried everything from counseling to self help books with no avail, then maybe it is time to throw in the towel.
Always host a break up in person whether you've been dating a week or decades. Never end a relationship by phone, during a fight or through someone else. Acting out never works, don't cheat or ignore your partner in the hopes of your behavior ending the relationship for you. If you share common friends never confide in them about the breakup beforehand, there's no need to test where your friends' loyalties lie. Confrontations are hard but you owe the person an explanation so be prepared for an array of emotions.
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Before the confrontation think about the reasons for ending your relationship so you can clearly express them to your partner. When initiating a breakup let your partner know, in as fair a way as possible, that your needs aren't being met. Give your partner the closure they need by answering any questions they might have. Once you've delivered the news and things have come to an untimely demise, remove yourself from the situation and wish them well. Avoid the clichés of asking for gifts back that you have given or for money that is owed you. Don't leave any "hope signals" such as giving the old "we'll still be friends" routine. Even if you do hope to continue a friendship you should leave that ball in their court.
When all is said and done, breathe a sigh of relief in knowing that you handled your breakup to the best of your abilities and move forward with your love life.
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The older I get, the more I realize just what a repressed sexual country we live in! The country clearly sent a message in the past presidential election that "conservatism" is the preferred cup of tea.
People are in an uproar over same-sex marriage, among other topics. But where is all that fervor when discussing the sexual habits of the traditional suburban couple? Because everyone is not getting in bed tonight and doing it "missionary" style:)
On Friday nights, many husbands are rushing after work to their favorite bar and then to their "girlfriend's" house for a late-night dinner, while their wives are getting ready for Saturday morning activities with the kids. You know the drill: soccer, ballet, birthday parties, and karate.
Or stay-at-home mom's who are tired of feeling unappreciated and unloved are seeking attention in other places, and it's not participating in the school PTO! Infidelity stats for wives is up, and they don't feel bad about it one bit. Hey, and maybe they shouldn't? But aren't these the same women looking down at another mother for the outfit she wore to the annual school benefit? "Too revealing...so inappropriate!"
Some couples aren't cheating, but going out and "swinging" with their partners. There are exclusive clubs, organizations, and websites devoted to this "lifestyle". Of course no one talks about this lifestyle because of the extreme amount of harsh judgment that would inevitably follow such a revelation. And where do most of these mystery swingers live? The suburbs.
Hey I've lived in both the city and the suburbs, and the women I know in the suburbs seem to be a lot naughtier then my city gals - When they tell me some of the things they are doing with their husbands or with other peoples husbands, it's like -- wow, she's doing what?
Hey, just another day in the burbs:)
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Sunday, 13. November 2005
What is Speed Dating? Secrets Revealed!
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Speed Dating started in Los Angeles as a way to assist Jews to meet Jews, but from here it has snowballed and lost it's religious connotations. Now it is little more that musical chairs, a quick turn round the room with an equal number of men and women, speaking to them all for a very few minutes. Usually the maximum number of minutes you speak to the person is eight minutes, which may seem short, but think about it, you can usually determine whether a person is interesting in eight minutes, and that way long enough to know if the chemistry works.
Depending on the site you will have between 6 and 12 dates in a night. Fortunately you have a piece of paper to record what you think of the person, because you may be having trouble at the end of the night remembering who was what. The problem has been made worse in that the modern trend is for three minutes.Obviously speed dating will work better when you are situated near a metropolitan area.
If you are going to judge whether a person is interesting in a few minutes, then this type of date is very visual. However, this does not necessarily mean looks here, a winning smile from ear to ear is going to have more impact than a long face. The only disadvantage that I can see if you have one or more physical defects, that you do not compensate for. However there are psychological tips for you to improve your odds. Some people say they don't know what they are looking for, and others go against their original preferences, but psychologists, say that people can be aware of this in three seconds. So, I guess if you have a speech impediment then this type of dating is not for you.
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HOW DOES IT WORK Who uses speed dating, more or less everyone, some events are open to anyone and others are age specific. Some are geared to specific events.
If you have a look at some of the Internet sites, that offer speed dating, then you will see that most people go and expect to get a grilling, and are then pleasantly surprised. The atmosphere is relaxed, and there will be a hostess there to put you at your ease. Most give you a number tag, which means that your anonymity is protected. After the initial chat the ladies' sit at the table and are joined by the men for the number of minutes. Then the men have to leave and move on to the next table. Apparently between the "bells", you have time to make notes. In some cases the hostess reviews the notes sheet and reveals some of the comments. I guess that this will be also anonymous, but it can be a helpful way for you to improve your technique. Many of the events also have a tip sheet regarding the questions you should and should not ask. It appears that most events have a policy that you cannot ask what a persons; occupation is, and that does restrict you from asking about a huge chunk of most peoples' day. It is less like an interview than it sounds. The personalities have to come across otherwise it would be boring. The technique must work, because the idea is mushrooming all over the globe, and not many people are daft enough to keep going to something that is not fun, and does not produce dates. All of us at some time or another has wasted an evening, or a month or even more on relationships that do not work, this offers a fast and effective weeding out tool.
WHAT SORT OF QUESTIONS SHOULD I BE ASKING Let's assume that you only have three minutes, so you need to sure of the questions that you want answers to. This is not a time to get tongue tied. Keep your questions simple, whilst at the same time asking pertinent questions that will have revealing answers. Are you religious? How would you change your life?
What do you like to do for fun? You can be as imaginative as you like, questions such as "What is your idea of perfect bliss?" could potentially reveal a lot about some ones personality, as well as there preferences. Whilst you need answers to questions, so does the other person, so it is important to be able to listen to what the other person is saying, and not monopolize the conversation.
WHAT IS THE COST OF SPEED DATING Of course it varies, but you can be looking at up to $45 for an evening that lasts 2-3 hours. However you can get more than one date out of that.
It is only the concept of speed dating that is fast, it is not a race to mate, so have a fun evening and try it. Maybe you find the concept scary, but then so was bungee jumping and that has been around for years.
One thought that I did have, is "What to Wear?". I can see that question is not that hard for men, the answer is probably smart casual. However, women have enough problem deciding what to wear for one date, never mind meeting a whole group of people. It is one thing to dress to impress for one guy, but a plethora is another story. It does seem that most events do not enforce a strict dress code so wear what is comfortable and makes you feel good. If you normally power dress, then don't try jeans, or vice versa.
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I want to share with you the key to finding the Right One and getting married the quickest way possible -- guaranteed.
It's not hard, doesn't cost any money, and takes only about one minute a day. You already have all the tools you need to make it happen, you just need to apply this for one minute every day.
What will guarantee that you find the Right One and get married the quickest way possible? A key ingredient is to believe in yourself, and I am going to show you why it works, and how to do it the right way.
The word "manifest" means to turn a thought into a thing. Everything you see around you -- cars, houses, the table, a pen -- were all once thoughts that someone turned into a real object. When you manifest something, you make it appear in the real world. Now as a single person, you have an idea that you want to get married, and what you want to do is manifest that idea into reality, to be standing under the marriage canopy.
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A key underlying force that allows you to manifest an idea into reality is to believe you can do it. We can all relate to times where the situation looked bad, but through sheer will and determination people beat insurmountable odds.
Consider a life-and-death scenario of being out in the wilderness alone. Gordon Smith, an instructor who spent 26 years in the U.S. Army's Special Forces, says: "If you have a guy with all the survival training in the world who has a negative attitude, and a guy who doesn't have a clue but has a positive attitude, I guarantee you that the one with the positive attitude is coming out of the woods alive. Simple as that." http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/69/fighttosurvive.html
This heightened motivation of people in dire situations appears to be the force that gets them through. But that's not the whole story. The amazing thing is what happens behind the scenes, the real secret to success. There is a stronger metaphysical component at work here.
Remember the Six Day War and the Yom Kippur War? The tiny State of Israel was surrounded by hostile Arab countries numbering over 200 million people. What happened? The Arab countries should have wiped Israel off the map in short order. Instead, Israel beat them all. Miracle!
We call it a miracle when we see a dramatic change in reality. In those wars we see an obvious change of reality -- how God changed a pending defeat into complete victory.
On a smaller scale, you can use the same principle to guarantee that you will get married quickly. Let's explain:
When you believe in something, the sheer force of your will can give God reason to support your goal. Based on your belief, God actually changes reality to make the thing that you want come about. For example: You want to get married, and if you believe with total conviction that you will find the Right One, then God can take your will and actually change reality to cause your soul mate to come to you.
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Let's look at the source of this idea, a story in the Talmud (Taanit 8a) about "The Weasel and the Pit." In the story, a young man promised to marry a certain woman. She asked: "Who will be the witness to this pledge?" The only things in the area at the time were a pit, and a weasel walking by. With no other option and in all sincerity, the young man said that the weasel and the pit should be the witnesses.
Time went by, and the young man forgot his pledge. Then he began experiencing serious hardships -- each time involving a weasel or a pit. In the end, he realized why these things were happening, and resolved to keep his pledge. He married the woman, and the misfortunes stopped.
Rabbi Chaim Shmulevitz gives insight on how this works. Obviously, the weasel and the pit have extremely limited powers. Yet when the young man initially designated them to be his witnesses, God took his sincerity into account and actually changed the reality to give the weasel and the pit the ability to uphold the promise.
The same principle is true for you. If you really believe in something, God may change reality so that it comes about.
However, this powerful idea is a double-edged sword. Just as it can work to your benefit, it can be to your detriment by bringing about something that is bad for you. Let's say you meet a really great person on a date, and decide that you absolutely, positively must marry this person.
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In reality, though, you may be temporarily infatuated with this person, and in fact they are really bad for you -- and marrying them will be a disaster. Yet if you will it hard enough, and are over-insistent, it is possible that God will allow you to marry that wrong person.
That's why, when you are dating, you should always ask God to help you marry the "right person" and not any specific person.
To summarize, there are two ways you can use this principle positively:
1) Believe in yourself.
If you truly believe that you will find the Right One and get married, then God can change the reality to make it happen.
2) Ask God to bring you the Right One.
The key here is to ask for "the Right One," and not "that one."
On a practical level, you need to make your belief real, by manifesting this idea -- everyday, once a day, for one minute.
Here's how to do it:
1) Say out loud: "I am ready to get married now. I am ready to meet him/her today. I am committed to being a giver in the relationship, rather than a taker."
2) Make one small effort to find them: Check for the newest members on a dating website. Call a matchmaker. Signup for a Speed Dating event. Call a friend and tell them what you are looking for.
Small, consistent steps is the key to success. "By the inch it's a cinch, by the yard it's hard." Meaning, if you take one small action every day, your small efforts turn out to be significant over time. You don't need to work hard, just be consistent.
The more consistent you are, the more you reinforce your belief. By saying positive statements and making small efforts, you send a bigger message to God, who can make it happen.
One of my mom's favorite sayings is, "Think big, be big." And it is very true.
"Think marriage, get married."
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Wednesday, 09. November 2005
The Power House Of Sexual Pleasure!
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In a previous article "The Joys Of Self Pleasure" I gave you tips on how to have a relaxing time with masturbation. Let me just say that I feel sex and masturbation are both a part of a healthy lifestyle. Having said that, I also believe that sex toys can be a great means of pleasure and can really enhance ones lovemaking. So today I want to tell you about one vibrator that gets used regularly in this household. This is a vibrator you can use when you are alone, or together with your partner during sex. Which by the way, is one of the reasons it gets used so often. I'm speaking of The Jack Rabbit. Nooo not the fury little critter we see at Easter, but a jelly-coated, multi colored, multi speed powerhouse of sexual pleasure.
The Jack Rabbit Vibrator was chosen as the best vibrator of 40 different vibrators on the Playboy TV's "Sexcetera". Charlotte was addicted to it on HBO's "Sex and the City", and it was selected as the best vibrator on a New York radio station when pitted against the Hitachi Magic Wand.
The Rabbit Vibrator is designed especially with the needs of women in mind. For this reason they stand out as one of the best and top selling sex toys for women, and purchased by women. Now, if you are wondering why someone who is happily married would have a Jack Rabbit Vibrator, you haven't had the pleasure of it's vibrations and gyrations yet. ;-)
The Rabbit Vibrator has three main parts. First a rotating or gyrating penis shaped shaft to give it a realistic feeling. Some Rabbit Vibrators have metal or plastic beads embedded in the shaft that vibrate or rotate. The beads rotate and vibrate massaging the vaginal muscles during orgasm. This really helps to enhance the feeling of an orgasm. And I mean REALLY Enhance! These beads or "pleasure pearls" as they are called are found only on a Rabbit Vibrator.
Then there are the "bunny ears". These "ears" flicker from the vibrations. They stimulate the clitoris while the shaft of the vibrator is inserted vaginally. This once again is perfect for women as it has been long proven that women experience easier and stronger orgasms if during penetration the clitoris is stimulated at the same time. The Jack Rabbit Vibrator does just that! And they do it very well!
Rabbit Vibrators have a turbo powered dual controller. An independent control for the 'rabbit ears', and one for the speed and swing of the vibrator shaft. This allows for a totally unique sexual experience for each woman, as sexual arousal is different for each of us. When all of these features work their magic together it is like the excitement of being on the largest roller coaster in the world. Can you just imagine all of that pleasure! WOW!
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Erectile dysfunction (ED) drugs like Viagra, Cialis and Levitra are not used by limited numbers of people but used by millions of people all over the world. Viagra is available in the erectile dysfunction market for the last 5 years. Increased usage of these drugs has also brought forward some cases of its harmful side effects.
The news that 38 people got blind after consuming Viagra is really very shocking. This has become a matter of concern for all its users. Some eye specialists have warned FDA about this in 1998 but no appropriate action was taken. This shows how governments and other authorities play with the heath of common people.
Eye specialists are saying that there could be a possible connection between blindness and Viagra as it alters blood flow in key parts of the body so it could affect circulation to the optic nerve as well. These drugs are used to get proper flow of blood to penis and this actually happens but body contains limited amount of blood. When blood flow is more in penis, other parts of the body gets affected as they do not get proper blood flow.
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There is not much awareness among people regarding Viagra and its use. One must understand or consult a physician to know who all are eligible to consume this drug. Its benefits and side effects should be mentioned on it for the benefit of its users.
First Date Tips and Tricks
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The first date: what to wear, where to go, what to say, what to do and what not to do. All this pressure to make a good first impression can be daunting. After all, you know practically nothing about each other and the whole point of a first date is to judge (as much as we don't like to admit it) whether or not we think we'd like to get to know each other better. But first dates don't have to be elaborate or fancy in order for you to secure that coveted second or third date. There are some things you will want to do and others you will want to avoid on a first date to ensure its success and the possibility of future dates as well.
When it comes to dating, it seems everyone thinks they're the expert to turn to for advice. Whether it's your friends or your lovable aunts who constantly inquire about your love life, everyone has a dating tip for you. But we all know what to do on a date, don't we? Always have a smile, listen attentively, be yourself, have fun, and the list goes on. So, if everyone knows the tips for successful dating, then why do we go through so much trouble and anxiety about first dates? Maybe it's because there is no set standard of rules anymore.
Once upon a time, chivalry was the norm. Nowadays, some women get offended when the door is held open or their seat is pulled out for them. Consequently, many single people are at a loss when it comes to knowing what to do and when to do it. And while there may not be an ultimate list of shoulds and should nots, there are still some common dating tips that everyone can agree on.
- It is important to be attentive to your date and this includes listening to what they are saying (and maybe throwing in a question or two) and maintaining eye contact when in a conversation.
- There is nothing worse than meeting your date and not knowing what you're going to do. If you have something planned ahead of time, it shows you put some thought into it.
- If you go out for dinner, why not split the bill? Sure, you were invited out and your date is expected to pay but offer anyway. And if your date picks up the tab, offer to pay the next time. - By all means, call your date if you say you're going to call! If you didn't have a good time then be courteous, and don't promise to get in touch when you really have no intention of doing so.
- Be polite; turn off your cell phone and stop the wandering eyes. There is nothing ruder than taking a casual call from a friend or ogling the waitress at the next table while your date is attempting to hold your attention.
- While talking about past relationships almost always comes up in conversation, don't start telling your date every last detail; they are not your therapist!
- And believe me, chivalry is not dead; women do appreciate it, just don't overdo it boys.
In this world of women's independence, many are taking it upon themselves to ask the man out. And why not?! It shows confidence and is a turn-on for many men. Keep in mind though, confidence is sexy, arrogance is a turn off.
Many people will have a different answer when you ask them their opinion on whether or not a kiss is acceptable on the first date. Maybe all you want to do is hold hands or snuggle and save the kiss for another date. It all depends on the chemistry between you and whether or not it feels right. And if it does, then go for it. Of course, if the date isn't going well, feel free to end the date early with everyone's favorite backup "emergency" phone call from a friend. Chances are if you're not having a good time, neither is your date!
Hopefully, this has broadened your outlook on the world of "first dates". The whole point of a first date is to figure out if you want to get to know the person better. Remember, when it comes to dating and tips, just follow your instinct and no matter the outcome, have fun, enjoy yourself, and relax.
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Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that matter... The next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons.
Here is the Killer mistake a lot of men make!
They spend too much time with a woman they should have "disqualified" 20 minutes after they met her. Mainly because they're glad to meet any woman who shows an interest in them.
What's the best way to avoid the pain and hassle of a bad partner?
To be able to disqualify a future partner! Not easy I know.
See, the men that are good with women, don't waste their time and energy on someone they instinctively know is going to be trouble. These guys have good qualifying skills, being able to move on quickly from un-responsive or unsuitable women. Then spending their time with only highly qualified dates. This is 'effective time management' for producing the best results!
So how do you qualify you ask?
Mmmmhhh, good question and a skill not practiced by many.
Let's look at it and give an example.
What men good with women do is to have clearly defined criteria and as soon as they identify a trait that is outside of their criteria, they politely discontinue interest and move on.
You need to know what your desired outcome is
Whether it is finding one lady for a permanent one on one committed relationship. Or you may want adventure and good times without too much commitment. If you don't decide your desired outcome, you can't define your ideal dating partner. Once you do know your outcome, however, the next step is to define the criteria of the "ideal dating partner."
Once you have that criteria defined, you want to as Quickly as possible find out if a woman fits that criteria. If she doesn't, then you need to spend your time identifying those who do. This is where most men make the 'Killer mistake.'
They stick with a woman they should "disqualify," hoping she'll develop the traits they're looking for. If she doesn't fit your criteria, decide and move on quickly. Then spend your valuable time and energy finding one who does.
Heres a common example. If you're looking to be married, and you're dating a woman who says, "I just want to have some fun and meet people, and if it goes further, we'll see what happens," then you need to disqualify her. She's looking for fun and adventure, not marriage, so she'll be hard work to change to the traits you are looking for. And waste your valuable time...
Fair enough? So you'll need to find and spend time with the type of women that suits your criteria. Write your criteria down and look at it BEFORE you send kisses, winks and emails at online dating sites.
If you just want to date and meet as many women as possible, which I did when I first went online to get experience, Your criteria can be small. However this Gets frustrating and disappointing as you are not spending quality time with quality women. Then a Year has gone by and you've had a lot of fun, but still not a really special, high quality woman in your life, that I'm sure you desire...
So the key to avoid the 'killer mistake' with online dating or any dating, is to define what YOU WANT. Then put as much time and energy as you can with women who fit that criteria, quickly moving on from women who don't. As hard and harsh as that may be, your success with women will be a direct result of how you manage your time! This will lead you to finding the type of woman who you want and look forward to spending time with.
This leads to a feeling of well being, success and contentment.
Good luck, I hope you've got value from this article.
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